I am a Domestic Engineer and live in NJ with my wonderful hubby and three kids ages 6, 4 and 1. I have a master’s degree in government which hasn’t helped in the LEAST since the birth of my first baby. A degree in child psych, dispute resolution, or even law enforcement would have been much more practical! I love motherhood and am completely in love with my kids, but over the years I’ve gotten deeper into the "mom abyss" and closer to losing my identity. Sound familiar? I created this blog to remind all of us that we are more than moms - we are beautiful, talented women and are not invisible! We need to value and nurture ourselves and forget trying to be everything to everybody. Writing has made me feel more like myself (and I might even regrow some of the brain cells I’ve lost!) Anyway, enjoy the anecdotes and inspirational thoughts...and know how glad I am that you're here!